Huge stretch of a gap between posts, and this in the 10th anniversary, Dear Blog. In winter as we started to see the benefit of folding new supports in with the old, I opened a first IG account. This is how I first discovered the story of Ravelry having a new look.
We had been in the thick of it as I last posted, and at the end of November we also added a puppy named Spark to our family. Spark is a cross called a Double Doodle, and he is almost 11 months old now. The growth spurts are a running joke and who knows how much growing into his paws we are still looking at?
A sometimes vocal stack of joy
Spark has been to a first level of training, and some fun nights of puppy social learning. He is Ty’s first dog, and everyone is thrilled to see the fun they get up to. This is the sparkliest Sparky (many more nick-names are in rotation but I will spare you), very wet & challenging winter and all.
Chewing has gone from teething to serious business. He is after all Labradoodle x Goldendoodle. One stack of trouble was how put out Mel cat truly was by this invasion. They now get along but there are sore points… What do you mean this pup gets all the treats? Wait, why is that puss on the counter/dining table/ soft chewable furniture?
In general, Spark is enthusiastic about moving humans towards water sources. He also has a passion for dandelions, and other growing things flora and/or fauna. I soon worked out that we both need for me to comb his double coat & that should always end in chest scritches.
He is in short a joy. Not everyone gets that would be self-care but for us it truly has been through the pandemic. You kind-of need to walk this one.
As life got more complex including for raw emotion, I had scaled-back my online volunteer work, social media. Adding a new account was a compromise and has helped me to post on a lower key, re-connect.
Stack with misgivings, books of new learning
In May, I felt ready to resume team work in a Ravelry group. It was good to be back except a family COVID-19 illness and other issues came up, de-railed.
It is now over a month since Ravelry rolled-out their changes to the site, branding. I have listened from outside of the site, engaged as I could saying that accessibility matters.
I also opened my loom for the first time in 6 months after the hills & valleys that were Grade 2 through in-school then distance learning. This is Deb Essen’s colour & weave gamp in 3/2 mercerized cotton.
While listening, transitioning our 8 year old, and getting back to organizing for myself too, I have thought a lot about inclusion. Even well-meaning neurotypical adults (therapy gatekeepers included) can misunderstand the true impact of policies, the systems they introduce or maintain. Learning has come through reading, always reading and podcasts around our constellation of needs. It’s a big part of how I deal.
Yesterday, I saw a screenshot of a tweet for the first time. The now-deleted post is by Ravelry co-owner, Cassidy. It exists; I am not linking. The post refers to an advocate/ally for accessibility. This unnamed individual is essentially called a multiple flier with the lies, and that this is a best-ever July in the site’s pattern sales gets asserted. The assertion is absent from today’s Ravelry.com updates post.
The unnamed advocate/ally is presumably lobbying for post-update communication & change to assist those suffering true impact now or later. This is how I read some raising pattern sales on Twitter although IG is the focus of this deleted tweet. No decision-maker in a system takes kindly to a lay person checking, balancing for pat accommodations rolled-out. It would be helpful if the phases were defined somehow in non-technical language or scheduled. As is a month in, the process seems opaque.
To be clear, this blog, TKK has remained a one woman amateur project. Still no affiliates, paid advertising, agreements or tip jars here or elsewhere. My Ravelry profile does link to new updates as does WordPress, and I manually post a shortlink reliably via single tweet. There is a small group of readers who navigate through Ravlery. The benefits as a user, blogger are real but as yet not monetized, and I am 1 in 9 million users. The Ravelry team is appreciated up to this point but not personally known to me.
This new, fairly consuming checks & balances work of mine was in a non-commercial setting with a group of professionals crossing systems. It was met with snide comments, we were “crazy” to get a puppy, and even more cutting remarks followed. It is upsetting on the receiving end because inaction really does suck in crisis with power not in your favour. One can always walk, right? Well, often with an impact there too.
The work is hard, and the book that explained edge states, practical middle ways is “Standing at the Edge” by Joan Halifax.
Backlash, account scrubbing by Cassidy are frankly surprising. As one Rav Pro account holder that I follow said simply, “WOW.” The messaging does not inspire confidence about important calls for post-update changes. That a majority of users who find the site functional are carrying-on touches none of the true impact on those excluded for various reasons. In addition, today’s update forced me to log into the site – others were in the blog. I continue to hope that changes are implemented.
Stack of plans, all-ears listening
It’s hard to see what you haven’t seen & that you play a part in making that better. ⇒ Bertice Berry, Ph.D., July 24, 2020, IGtv
What I have seen of othering, intersectionality was not obvious to me in my personal work even 10 months ago. I may have found the texts as a good reader far from most of my close supports but would I have followed footnotes? No, that was hard to see as Dr. Berry notes.
The pressures as a caregiver during this pandemic have also shaped what I am able to see. How I am able to integrate and if there are no deeper complications where I play the part will come.
Accepting that human variations exist & working to remove barriers is both necessary, easier said than done.